A message posted on the Verizon support forum for the HTC DROID Incredible says that the update has been delayed so that the product team can go through some more testing. The carrier adds that as soon as more information about a new date for the download is known, they will pass it on. Which means more waiting for DROID Incredible users. Still, we wonder if you can miss something that you've never had in the first place.
source: Verizon via AndroidCentral
This post from a Verizon employee says that there will be no Gingerbread update for the HTC DROID Incredible right now